Many people perceive kindness as one of the best traits of humankind. However, there is a crucial distinction between being really kind and being a people pleaser. The main difference is that while kind people are ready to help others because they want to do it, people-pleasers often have an excessive desire to please others because they fear disappointing them and receiving criticism. Consequently, such behaviour leads to stress, dissatisfaction, and emotional burnout. Thus, understanding the nature of such a phenomenon will help you to build positive relationships and evaluate people’s motivation correctly. The following are five indicators that you deal not with a kind person but a people pleaser.
